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Life-Stream
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Spain,but i'm from London

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Getting a divorce...

Posted by Life-Stream - May 10th, 2009


I'm too lazy to type this up again, so i'm gonna copy-pasta more or less what i said in the C&C regs lounge when i told them....

Yeah, yeah i know - it's probably a shock to most of you that i'm even married, let alone that i'll soon be getting a divorce and adding to the 1 in every 3 marriages ends in divorce statistic.

I've been married for 2 and a half years now, and i was with my wife another 3 years before hand. When we did tie the knot, we honestly did think it would be forever, but i guess we're not as compatible as we thought we were. There's alot of personal shit behind it all aswell, but all in all, we decided between the two of us that we'd probably be better off ending it now before it gets to a stage where there's no turning back (kids). I know some people will say to work shit out, but we've tried a few times and always end up in the same place. I guess we could keep trying and maybe it will work for a year or two, but i feel it's just delaying the inevitable.

We've agreed to great friends, and don't want any hard feelings between us, and don't want to end up fighting for money or anything like that - so atleast that's positive.

It's a sad situation i guess, and very stressful having to tell family and friends but i guess life goes on. We can't sit around feeling sorry for ourselves.....right?

Getting a divorce...


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"I think an unnatural obsession with Tifa is perfect grounds for a divorce."
Haha, well played.

What are we playing?

Sorry to hear about your impending divorce, dude. People are funny creatures and it seems odd that so many want to struggle in relationships that they actually don't feel happy in. So think of it as a positive - a chance to find someone that you can enjoy an intimate and loving relationship with; or take it as a chance for down-time and adventuring. The glass is half full, and all that jazz!

Really nice comment. Thanks alot for yor words.

Too Bad. Yah, probabl ythe Tifa thing doesn't help.

Honestly it has nothing to do with it....

Sorry to hear about it man, but if it isn't working out, there's not much you can do.

Exactly. it's either end it now or live a miserable life.

Spain, but from London

Is that too hard to understand?

Ouch, divorce huh.

Im Glad you and the ex can keep a good relationship, for the kids I mean.

No, i don't have kids, thats why i'm doing this now, before i have kids....

When's the Divorce final?

Pfff, dunno, could be months, but seeing as we've decided whats gonna happen we pretty much each do our own thing.

Damn, still, I guess it's better than living in a loveless marriage. :/

yes-sir-ee

Well, i still love her, naturally, but i know that it won't last forever, ya know. We're too different and want different things in life, so....

Love your sig XD

It is great :P

Gonna change your job now? :P

I wish you the best and hope it all works out well for you. Very wise decision to do this before bringing kids into the situation.

lol, oh yeah, i forgot about that. Thanks for the reminder.

And thanks, i think it's the right thing to do tbh.

Hey man, you're one of the lucky ones. For me, it'd probably end with pain and heartbreak, not because I'm a bad person, but because that's how most of my life is.

Wow, you're optimistic -_-

Cheer up man, things will get better for you, i'm sure...